I'll add an anecdote here that you can take for what it's worth.
I once knew a young woman who was Brady's 'girlfriend' during his last years at Michigan. I put the word in quotes because her position was that of fulfilling all the roles that would normally be ascribed to a cohabiting wife. Meals, laundry, and you know the rest.
Anyway, she was excited about his pro career and their future together. However, once he signed his first contract with the Patriots, he summarily informed here that he was dumping her. Nothing exceptional in this story, I suspect.
However, when she asked him 'why?'. rather than come up with a lame but polite, "it's not youl--it's me", or something similar, he said, "Your'e just not good looking enough."
Did he deflate footballs? It would be impossible for me to care less But I don't like him.