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The whole 'opposite sex' shtick never did sit well with me. To my mind, and if the continuation of the species is of any significant value, men and women must be more invested in cultivating strong relationships with the OTHER sex than with each other. There's a meme-worthy distillation of this idea floating around somewhere in the ether, but I've yet to encounter it.
We're teammates, not opponents. Even teammates compete with each other, but in the end they're working together for mutual victory.